Ara feels that African males enjoy the notion of being with a strong woman but find it difficult to deal with the reality of being in a relationship with one.
As a guest on Vanguard's Instagram Live session on Friday, Aralola Olamuyiwa, often known as Ara, discussed a variety of topics, including how she got her start in drumming, being a single mother, and feminism.
"No, I don't think I'm less than. Ara said when asked if she feels nervous about being a single mother, "I'd be lying if I said I didn't miss that stability of having a partner in my life, but one thing I've come to learn in this part of the world is that African males cannot contain a strong girl like myself.
“Men like the fantasy of dating a star, but they cannot hold down a relationship with a star, a celebrity, a strong woman. This is not entertainment only. It’s about strong women in all fields. It takes a very strong, self-confident man to have a relationship with women like us. We are very strong. It doesn’t mean he won’t love you. He will love and respect you.
“For me, over the years, I’ve been single. I’ve been single since 2011. I’ve been careful in getting involved. I’ve gotten four marriage proposals, but I turned them down, because I could see that these men really liked and wanted to marriage, but would not be able to sustain the relationship and I would have to leave again because they had insecurity issues and were easily intimated.”
She further said she ended a four months relationship because of her partner’s insecurity.
Watch full interview below…
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